If it’s not truth — it’s not LOVE

1Jo 3:18 Children, let us not love with word, nor with tongue, but in deed and in truth.
1Jo 3:19 And hereby we shall know that we are of the truth, and shall persuade our hearts before him–
1Jo 3:20 ¶ that if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart and knows all things.